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October 27, 2009
posted by Lauren in: Parenting

It’s my boy’s birthday and he’s not home.

Today is my eldest child, Ben’s, birthday (he’s 27 today) and he’s not home. He’s away on a business trip and I haven’t even been able to connect verbally to him and I’m missing him so much…Not being able to say “happy birthday”…is something that seems totally un-natural to a parent. Especially a parent that was given their greatest wish, the day that this child was born.

No worries, though (I keep telling myself…). His birthday dinner is coming (this Friday). Late…but, I trust, it will be great just the same.

Benjamin, my darling son. I love you so very much. You are a joy from the bottom to the top. A gift in the truest sense. Happy, happy birthday.

October 19, 2009
posted by Lauren in: Blogs with Recipes, Humorous, Inspirational & Motivational

The “Catch” of a Lifetime.

Oh well. This weekend, Jon and I were ”supposed” to go on a (very) short fishing trip. The kids are all in their respective places (school and work) and, for the very first time, I agreed to put Mango (our 3 year old Lab.) into doggie camp and we were going to Montauk, Long Island for a much needed, teeny-weeny vacation. Of course, that’s not to say that real fishing is easy–it’s not! But it’s really FUN!

Last March, we went to the Bahamas for a week and fished ALL day, every day …

We're off shore and I have a fish on the line...

We're fishing off shore and I have a big one on the line...

Me and my big-fat Mutton Snapper!

Me and my big-fat Mutton Snapper!

Here's Jon with his Mutton Snapper...

Here's Jon with his big fat Mutton Snapper...

Here's Jon with his Grouper...

Here's Jon with his amazing Grouper...

Here's us with our "double catch" of Wahoo (we both had them on our lines at the same time!) Wahoo is an amazingly succulent and delicious fish!

Here's us with our "double catch" of Wahoo (we both had them on our lines at the same time!) If you've never eaten Wahoo, it's an incredibly meaty, succulent and delicious fish...

Each night, we would go to a different neighborhood restaurant near the marina and have the chef cook up our catch.

Jon and I caught these all in one day!

Jon and I caught these all in one day!

We would have the chef cook the fish and then share it with the kitchen staff...

After fishing, each day, the first mate on the boat would fillet the fish and then, after sharing our catch with him and the captain, we would take the rest to a local restaurant. What we couldn't eat, we happily shared with the kitchen staff...

Ever since this trip, it’s been really hard to call any fish “fresh” after having experienced the perfection of “just caught” fish.

Anyway, we didn’t get to go fishing this weekend. The weather forecast turned bad so  instead of having two days on the water, Jon (who, I knew, felt really bad) came to me and said (as if this would be as good…) “Hey, Laur…let’s go apple picking and we’ll take Mango with us!”

“Gee… ok,” I said.

So, we drove a bit over an hour upstate and traipsed through a huge orchard filled with tons of trees that grew a vast variety of apples. In just over an hour of picking, I must say, we did pretty well! We filled three large plastic bags, which wasn’t easy–especially considering that many of the trees were already well “picked-through” and whatever was left  were dangling higher than we were tall. Plus, we were also trying to manage a large (and very busy) dog on a leash.

Mango was very happy that we didn't go fishing...

Mango was so happy that we didn't go fishing...

After walking back to the car lugging both, our apples and mango, I realized that during all the reaching and bending, I lost my reading glasses!  (Anyone that knows me intimately, knows that losing my glasses is NOT an uncommon occurrence…) Jon, being the sweet man that he is, actually agreed to go all the way back with me…trying to retrace our steps through a gazillion trees, searching  for my glasses–which was really so silly, considering they had transparent frames and were completely unable to be seen (especially not by me, without my glasses!). So, after finally saying  ”bye-bye” to my specs we got in the car, drove down lots of winding dirt roads, headed back to the front gates of the orchard where we were required  to pay a whopping $50 for our “apple-catch.” (I silently started doing the math, trying to figure out how expensive this day was now that I had to ALSO  replace my glasses…)

So, we drove home and then came the inevitable, after a day of picking.

What will I DO with all of these apples??

What will I DO with all of these apples??

It’s not that I don’t like going fruit picking (I love it) but this particular time, my inner voice kept nagging….”Boy, right now, Jon and I could be toting our big fat fresh fish to a restaurant AND I could be staying in a hotel with turn-down service. This was supposed to be a vacation day!…”

Mango was (as was I)  totally pooped after our day of apple picking... Of course, Mango was thrilled as she lay splat on the floor of my kitchen, completely pooped after our day out in the fields…

After cleaning all the apples, I went to bed. (I was just as tired as Mango– I’ll spare you the photograph…)

compressed big bowls of apples

Anyway, the next morning, I made the logical choice when about to wrestle with a ton of apples… I decided to make applesauce. So, I cleaned them all up and seperated out the small ones (and all of the red delicious apples) for eating and used the rest for the sauce.

Today, it would be the smooth kind (instead of the chunky type that I also make).

Although I usually use Macintosh as the base (the ones that I cook and mash), because we had so many varieties, I used them all (Ida, Cortland, Macs…and some others that I haven’t ever eaten before.)

I cored them and cut them into wedges (I discard the core but leave the skin on to add a rosy color to my sauce–not to mention that it would take me about a decade to peel all those apples!) The best tool to use when working with lots of apples is an apple corer/wedge cutter (If you’re a mother, you probably have one of these in one of your kitchen drawers. If not, it looks like this… )

An apple corer.

An apple corer/wedge cutter.

How to use an apple corer/wedge cutter

How to use an apple corer/wedge cutter

compressed cropped big pot of apples cut up on the stove

I used a 16-quart pot and filled it to capacity with cored, cut up apples. I added a hefty splash of apple juice. (Actually, this time, I used apple cider, purchased from the orchard. I usually just use unsweetened apple juice.) I stuck several cinnamon sticks down into the apples, covered the pot and turned the heat to high. As the apples cooked…

compressed mashing apples

I occasionally uncovered the pot and would try to turn the apples so that some of those wedges more exposed to bottom heat would be rotated to the top. I also used a potato masher on the apples, trying to help them to break down.

compressed apples reducing

Once all the apples became good and hot, they started to reduce and became easier to mash.  I just kept (occasionally) opening the pot, turning the apples and mashing them down.

compressed mashed apples ready to be processed

It didn’t take long before the apples completely surrendered their texture (boy, that sentence makes me feel powerful…) and it was now time to transfer things to a food mill. So, I positioned a very large food mill over a very large bowl.

And I have quite the food mill…

compressed big food mill

This is a HUGE food mill that I purchased years ago from a restaurant supply store. It was pricey and I felt guilty but since I never (ever) seem to make a small batch of applesauce, and because I always had a really hard time positioning (straddling) a smaller food mill over the large bowl, I caved in and bought this big one. I’ve never regretted it…Having said this, all food mills are not easy to clean (especially this gargantuan one) unless you understand how to take it apart and put it back together. (I finally learned so PLEASE email me so I can help you…)

compressed apple sauce in a big bowl

As you churn the apples in the food mill, pick out the cinnamon sticks. If a stray one gets in there, don’t worry,  it won’t hurt anything but they can’t go through the holes and just slows things down a bit. Then, to the bowl of pureed apples, add some pure vanilla extract, ground cinnamon, freshly grated nutmeg and sugar (all to taste). Then add a pinch of salt (salt always helps to release sweetness).

compressed jars of apple sauce without tops

Then, ladle the applesauce into very clean quart-size jars and let it cool to just warm. (I drape a sheet of wax paper over the top, as it cools). Then put a piece of plastic wrap over the top of each jar and attached their lids…and into the fridge they go! If you don’t have enough refrigerator space, you can always process the jars in a boiling water bath. To learn about the tools and how to do this properly, read this blog.

So, the applesauce was finally put to bed and I was about to head to my office to write when Jon came into the kitchen and said with a smile “Honey, quick, come outside to see the big fat figs that are ripe and just waiting for you to pick them off the tree!” Now, if you’ve ever grown figs successfully…and if you’ve ever (then) had a season that failed to produce, you know how exciting this moment was (and what made it even sweeter was that Jon saved this for me).

So, I went outside and, there they were.

How sweet it is!!....

How sweet it is!!....

Today's "pick." (YAY!)

Today's "pick." (YAY!)

This morning, as I laid in bed thinking and reflecting on this past weekend, I was no longer feeling robbed of a fishing trip. Instead I was filled with gratitude.  I have Jon as a husband and best friend who always supports my growth (he continues to buy me new glasses) and he never stops helping me see the bright spot in everything.

The Point: Although great vacations inevitably end and new ones can unexpectedly get canceled, great relationships can provide us all with everyday access to how it feels to get the “catch” of a lifetime.

October 10, 2009
posted by Lauren in: Blogs with Recipes, Kitchen Management

As the big thaw continues (and finally concludes) …

Sorry I haven’t blogged in a while (since before the holidays) …but there was just too much going on. COOKING, COOKING, COOKING, BAKING, COOKING AND MORE BAKING AND COOKING. And, if you think I’m sick of it, you’re wrong. Nope… still love it all.

So, I’m now in the fourth (or is it the fifth?) week of the “thaw and cook” challenge and, my fear that my butcher would think I was sick–or worse–that I defected to another provider–was TRUE!. Two weeks ago, I walked in to the shop, wanting to place my order for the holiday and, as I expected, Dom, my beloved butcher (after only 1 full week of not placing an order), he approached me with real seriousness (and a bit of a stammer) and said ” are you okay?” I quickly replied (actually, I started babbling like an idiot)…”Yes, oh yes…I knew you would think something was wrong, oh, I’m fine, thanks for asking, –I’m doing this–this thing…this commitment to thaw out my freezer…I’m fine, we’re all fine, you’re still my wonderful butcher, don’t worry…NO ONE could EVER take your place!”

compressed Dominic and Me at the Meateria

I swear, without words, Dom’s expression said “I don’t know whether to hug this woman or to call the paramedics.”

Anyway, at least ordering meat for the holiday helped him to feel less abandoned by me, a customer that’s, I’m sure, trusted to pay a big chunk of the monthly bill for refrigeration at The Larchmont Meateria.

As far as the “big thaw” is going–Well, it’s going….and going. (Meaning, I’m getting close to the end.) That’s not saying that my freezer is not still full, it is! I have SO MUCH stock! All kinds of stock: dark chicken, light chicken, veal, beef, lamb, shrimp, fish and fresh clam juice. I also have bones…beef knuckles and shank scraps and marrow bones, chicken necks, backs and wing-tips, lamb shank bones (extras from last year’s Passover Seder), bags of shrimp shells and, I even found a bag of GOAT BONES… Not sure where those came from. Must have been when my son, Ben, asked me to make him curried goat and I thought I should make stock (for the sauce) with goat bones. I obviously never got around to it and I’m not sure how long goat bones stay good. …Or, shrimp shells, for that matter.

So, because this is the first blog in a while…and because I just can’t give step by step commentaries on ALL the food I’ve made over the past few weeks…and since I would really like to feel “caught up” so I can get back on the “blogging band-wagon” –I thought I’d just stick to a few photos of some of the highlights that cover my on-going (and I think, finally, concluding) “thaw and cook challenge.” More in-depth “formal” recipes and step-by-step blogs will be coming for many of the dishes mentioned and some are already on the site. If so, I’ll link their mention to the appropriate page. And, if there’s one recipe in particular that you’d like more clarity on, just send me a comment using the link provided on this page or click here and send me an email.

So, as my freezer got emptier, the foods became simpler, albeit not necessarily less delicious (or exotic)!

Take these hot dogs, for instance. I found these Kobe Beef Hot Dogs, frozen….so I thawed them out (in the refrigerator overnight) and, because it was raining, I decided to just cook them on the stove, using a stove-top grill pan. I always slash my hot dogs several times, on two sides, which helps them to heat thoroughly without bursting (and, to me, the slashes make hot dogs a bit more luscious-looking, once cooked).

These aren't just "any" hot dogs....

No, these aren't just "any" hot dogs....


I found these Kobe Beef Hot Dogs, frozen....

They're Kobe Beef Hot Dogs, slashed, grilled and placed on buns that have first been basted on the inside with garlic butter and then broiled till golden.

I served the hot-dogs with a cucumber salad that I concocted from one of my two (unexpectedly found) bionic cucumbers that were “hanging out” just outside the perimeter of my garden.

Oh, you don’t believe how big they were? Just take a look at this!

cropped and compressed another big fat cucumber hiding

Just to show you the scale…

This cucumber was taller than the container of rice!

These cucumbers were taller than this 36 ounce container of rice! And, they were much more delicious than expected...really crisp, too.

For this simple salad: I peeled the cucumbers, halved them lengthwise and scooped out the seeds. I cut the cucumbers into chunks and tossed them with some thinly sliced sweet yellow onion. Then, I put together a simple dressing with 1/3 cup white wine vinegar, 2 cloves pressed garlic, 1/4 cup granulated sugar, 1 teaspoon salt, freshly ground black pepper to taste, about 1 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes and 1/2 cup olive oil (I mixed pure and extra-virgin). I whisked the dressing and tossed it with the cucumbers and onions, along with a good handful of chopped fresh cilantro (you could also use dill, instead). I let this macerate for a few hours in the fridge. It was totally delish and a nice contrast to the rich hot dogs.

Home-grown cucumber salad...

Home-grown cucumber salad...

The next night was pork chops…(yes, frozen and thawed).

I always brine lean cuts of pork…it’s simple and always assures me that the cooked meat will be succulent.

Here’s what to do to brine pork: Take 6 cups cold water and whisk in 1/2 cup each Kosher salt and sugar (white granulated or light brown sugar) and add some freshly ground black pepper. You could also add some chopped onion, or simply season the brine with onion and garlic powder (not onion or garlic salt). When well mixed, pour over the pork chops which should be laying in a single layer in a large, nonreactive dish, that’s able to hold them and the brine comfortably. Here’s what the chops look like when brined….

These are in the simplest brine of just water, sugar, salt and pepper.

These are in the simplest brine of just water, sugar, salt and pepper.

Now cover the dish with plastic wrap and refrigerate for 1 1/2 hours (no longer or the meat becomes weird…) If brining a larger pork loin (a roast), then you can brine the meat for up to 2 1/2 hours, turning the meat a few times.

Then, drain the chops and dry them off (no need to rinse before patting them dry).

compressed drained brined pork chops

Now, all you do is apply your seasoning. I like to marinate pork…this time, I kept it simple. I just used extra-virgin olive oil, minced garlic, herbs and lots of black pepper (some crushed red pepper, too).

Like this...

Like this...

You can add an acidic, like vinegar or lemon or lime juice. Or, you can just use a favorite vinagrette that’s already in the fridge.

Then, I just applied this to the chops…

compressed seasoned brined pork chops before grilling

And I kept the chops covered and chilled until about 30 minutes or so before I wanted to cook them.

compressed pork chops grilling on stove

Which I did, on the stove, on a stove-top grill pan.

To do this: Preheat your pan, over medium heat until nice and hot. Then, just before putting on the meat, raise the heat to high. Sear the chops for three minutes on each side (have your exhaust fan on high, or make sure to have a gorgeous, freshly baked pie ready to give the fire guy who will, undoubtedly, show up at your front door…FYI: Fire guys are very good cooks and they’re ALWAYS hungry.)

After searing the chops on both sides, turn the heat down low and, if using a large rectangular pan, like I am in the photo, place a large roasting pan over the pan and cook the chops gently, just until cooked through…155F is the internal temperature you’re after, though I never use a thermometer for this…) If using a smaller pan, with fewer chops, just use a round heatproof (stainless) bowl as the cover. What you’re doing is creating a moist “stove-top oven”…this is a great way to keep meats succulent after searing–especially those types that have a tendency to become dry after sitting in a conventional oven. The length of time you’ll cook the chops covered will depend on their thickness. The searing process is always the same…three minutes on each side. For chops that are 1 inch thick, I cook them (covered, on low) for about 4 minutes after searing, then turn off the stove and let them sit there for a minute or two…just to let them rest in a hot but non-aggressive environment.

Not bad for a "once frozen" pork chop...

Not bad for a "once frozen" pork chop!...

I served the chops with this…

Garlicky broccoli rabe over pasta, beans and broth

Garlicky broccoli rabe over orecchiette pasta, white beans and chicken stock. (Yes, of course, my stock was from the freezer....) A separate blog and recipe is coming ...

Then there were the Mexican Fajitas! Oh boy…

First I marinated my skirt steak and boneless chicken breasts (each in separate dishes). The flavoring mixture was easy…Just extra-virgin olive oil, minced garlic and my fajitas seasoning (you can use my recipe or you can use any spicy taco seasoning.) Just sprinkle enough of the dry mix in to give it good flavor and color. Sometimes (as I did below) I’ll also add minced jalapeno peppers and cilantro. Coat the protein well and cover the dish(es).

Always marinate raw chicken and/or pork seperately --not with any other protein, even if using in the same flavoring mixture.

Always marinate raw chicken and/or pork seperately --not with any other protein, even if using in the same flavoring mixture.


The chicken breasts were butterflied (opened up) so their overall thickness was more even.

The chicken breasts were butterflied (opened up) so that their overall thickness would be more even.

Refrigerate up to 24 hours and, about 30 minutes before you want to cook, take the meat(s) out of the fridge.

After preparing the meat(s), then work on your vegetables.

compressed vegetables for fajitas

Thinly sliced onion, Italian sweet peppers (or use sweet bell peppers), sliced garlic, minced garlic and seeded and thinly sliced jalapeno peppers. I also often will included sliced button mushrooms. You can do this a day ahead and keep all the vegetables refrigerated, well covered.

Don’t forget to keep a bowl of all your kitchen scraps to add to your compost bin (see…I am SO determined to have a great vegetable garden next summer!)

compressed for the compost

Now, up to two hours before you plan to cook the meat(s), you can cook your vegetables. Saute the onions in some extra-virgin olive oil, till softened and fragrant, over high heat. (If adding mushrooms, once the onions have softened, stir in the mushrooms and let them cook with the onions until tender and starting to turn golden.) Add some of the fajitas spice blend and the sliced garlic and continue to cook for a few minutes, then add the peppers. Cook just until the peppers are wilted but still retain texture, then stir in some chopped cilantro and season to taste with more of the spice blend and salt and pepper, to taste. Give the mixture a good squeeze of fresh lime juice.

compressed vegetables sauteeing for fajitas

Remove the vegetables to a bowl…

The vegetables can sit, like this, at room temperature for up to two hours, loosely covered.

As mentioned, the vegetables can sit, like this, at a comfortable room temperature for up to two hours, loosely covered. Doing this makes the dish really easy to pull together, right before serving...

When getting ready to cook the meat(s), place a large fajitas pan into the oven (center shelf) and preheat the oven to 450F.

This one comes with it's own trivet. I love this pan.

Fajitas pans come in different sizes and shapes (oblong and round) and usually with their own trivet.

On this night, since I used my outdoor barbecue, after preheating the indoor oven (with the fajitas pan inside), I started my outdoor fire. You could, though, just as easily heat a large stove-top grill pan (again, with your exhaust fan on!)

But, since tonight, the open air was my exhaust fan….I just got my charcoal nice and hot in two chimney starters.

compressed chimney starters

Then, when the flames were seen at the top and most of the coals were red hot, I poured them out into the grill, below the grill grates.

compressed charcoal just after being poured out of a chimney starter

I lowered the grates down, over the coals and let the grill grates get good and hot. Then I added the meat(s) to the hot grill grate and applied a good squeeze of fresh lime to the top. I cook the meat(s) on both sides until done. (Chicken should be cooked through, being careful not to overcook and beef should be cooked to medium rare (or more, depending on your preference)

compressed chicken and skirt steak grilling

Here’s the finished platter of cooked meat…

compressed steak and chicken for fajitas (grilled) on platter

Then…after the meat(s) are done, it’s time to finish the dish (this is also when the meat(s) get to rest, making them more succulent.

To finish the dish: Open the door to the preheated 450F oven and carefully pull the rack toward you. Empty the cooked vegetables onto the hot fajitas pan and push the rack back into the oven. Shut the door and let the vegetables cook for 10 minutes (till hot and sizzling). Meanwhile, slice the meats into strips. One or two minutes before the vegetables are finished, open the oven again and place the meats on top of the vegetables (make sure to pour any accumulated juices from the platter over the top). Shut the oven door and let cook for the last minute or two, then bring the sizzling platter to the table….

OK, I don’t have a picture of the finished dish (from this night) …The truth: I forgot, we were all so excited about eating –Another truth: I had two margaritas…)

So, here’s a picture of the finished dish from my cookbook (and in this version, I added shrimp…seasoned the same way as the chicken and steak, just skewered and quickly grilled on both sides.

fajitas-sm

Yes, those are homemade flour tortillas and pico de gallo (all coming…)

By this time in the challenge, Jon was thinking he might need to increase his daily intake of Lipitor….So, I decided to make fish…

Whole roasted Dorade...so, so, so delicious (especially after all that meat!)

Whole roasted Dorade...so, so, so delicious (especially after all that meat!)

To learn more about cooking whole fish, click here.

I served the fish with sauteed fresh spinach.

Fresh spinach

Fresh spinach wilted in some hot, garlic-scented extra-virgin olive oil.

Before adding the spinach to the hot olive oil, I browned some poached garlic. First, I poached halved (peeled) garlic cloves in boiling water for 2 minutes(which helps garlic to take on the consistency of a potato). I drained the garlic and then browned them in some extra-virgin olive oil (which makes them taste like a garlicky roast potato). Like this…

While browning, tilt the pan, so the poached garlic can brown more submerged in the oil. This will help prevent inadvertent burning.

While browning, tilt the pan, so the poached garlic can brown more submerged in the oil. This will help prevent inadvertent burning.

Then, using a slotted utensil, you’ll remove the browned garlic, and you’ll saute the spinach in this same (now garlic-flavored) oil. And, once the leaves are lightly wilted (over high heat), reduce the heat to low, add the browned garlic and some salt and pepper, to taste, and cover the pot. Cook just until the leaves are perfectly tender but still bright green, about 2 minutes. (You can also add some freshly minced garlic and some crushed red pepper flakes, just before covering the pan).

And then, I finally finished my “thaw and cook” challenge with this…one of Jon’s favorites.

Sloppy Joe’s ….(and it was SO EASY!)

Here’s how I did it…

Since this sauce freezes SO perfectly, I always make a big batch, then divide it and stick it in the freezer.

Since this sauce freezes SO perfectly, I always make a big batch, then divide it and stick it in the freezer.

So, because I already had the sauce, all I had to do was purchase some ground beef (or ground turkey). (No, I wasn’t cheating because I had to thaw a frozen container of my sloppy Joe sauce…

Then, all I did was brown the beef in a dry skillet, dump out any rendered fat and then add the sauce. And, in just 10 minutes…

compressed meat with sloppy joe sauce

I was ready to spoon the sloppy Joe mixture onto large burger buns that were (like with the hot dog buns in the beginning of this blog), basted on the inside with garlic butter and then broiled until the seasoned sides were golden. And, by the way, if feeding a vegetarian, you can also use reconstituted textured vegetable protein instead of meat! You would add the reconstituted protein to a skillet and skip the browning step. Just add the sauce and bring to a simmer…let cook a few minutes to fully flavor the protein and you’re good to go.

I served the sloppy Joe’s with poached and oven roasted potato wedges (Potatoes are my favorite vegetable on earth. A potato blog is coming…)

compressed and brightened best of sloppy joes with potatoes on plate

So, my family got to enjoy yet another delicious week, all stemming from my freezer.

And now, even though I’ve still got a lot of frozen stock, it’s finally time to put this challange to bed. My butcher, Dominic, I’m sure, will be very happy…

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